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1. Cairella, C. (2012, June). Getting to the heart of the matter: Using EMDR effectively with couples [Llegando al corazón del problema: El empleo efectivo de EMDR con parejas]. Presentation at the annual meeting of the EMDR Europe Association, Madrid, Spain.
Language: English
Format: Conference
Abstract:
This presentation outlines how EMDR and Couple's Therapy can be
integrated in the field of psychotherapy. The audience will learn how to conduct a
couple's therapy session based on the 8 Phases of the EMDR protocol. During this
presentation, video recordings will be provided to demonstrate how EMDR can be
used in the couple's therapy setting when emotionally disruptive events, such as
infidelity, attachment injuries or childhood trauma have negatively affected the
relationship.
Couples therapy examines the negative cycle that occurs within the relationship,
helps to deepen the couple's awareness of both their internal experience and the
experience of their partner, and to cultivate intimacy within the relationship.
However, if the couple is unable to tolerate their own anxiety or the distress of
their partner, their mid-brain can become emotionally charged, thus leading to
further discord within the relationship.
Based on the AIP model, if either one or both members of the relationship are
being triggered by unresolved past traumatic events both parties can become
activated. Since the initial perceptions, emotions and distorted thoughts are stored
as they were experienced at the time of the event, the couple can get caught in an
unending negative cycle that further exacerbates the anxiety and distress in the
relationship. By integrating EMDR in Couple's Therapy we hypothesize that EMDR
helps to both increase one’s ability to tolerate anxiety and decrease the intensity of
past traumatic events and present day triggers, thus decreasing the level of
distress in the relationship.
Esta
presentación
esboza
cómo
se
puede
integrar
EMDR
y
la
terapia
de
pareja
en
el
campo
de
la
psicoterapia.
Los
participantes
aprenderán
a
llevar
a
cabo
una
sesión
terapéutica
de
pareja
sobre
la
base
de
las
8
fases
del
protocolo
de
EMDR.
Durante
esta
presentación,
se
ofrecerán
vídeos
para
demostrar
cómo
se
puede
utilizar
EMDR
en
el
contexto
de
una
terapia
de
pareja
cuando
han
afectado
la
relación
de
forma
negativa
eventos
emocionalmente
perturbadores,
como
la
infidelidad,
daños
al
apego
o
trauma
infantil.
La
terapia
de
pareja
examina
el
ciclo
negativo
que
se
da
dentro
de
la
relación,
ayuda
a
profundizar
la
conciencia
de
la
pareja
tanto
de
su
experiencia
interna
y
la
experiencia
del
otro
miembro
de
la
pareja
y
a
cultivar
la
intimidad
dentro
de
la
relación.
Sin
embargo,
si
la
pareja
no
es
capaz
de
tolerar
su
propia
ansiedad
o
el
estrés
de
su
pareja,
se
les
puede
quedar
cargado
el
cerebro
medio
y
así,
provocar
más
discordia
dentro
de
la
relación.
De
acuerdo
con
el
modelo
AIP,
si
eventos
traumáticos
sin
resolver
“disparan”
a
un
miembro
de
la
relación
o
a
ambos,
pueden
activarse
ambas
personas.
Desde
las
primeras
percepciones,
se
guardan
las
emociones
y
pensamientos
distorsionados
igual
que
se
vivieron
en
el
momento
del
suceso,
la
pareja
puede
acabar
atrapada
en
un
ciclo
negativo
sin
fin
que
agudiza
aún
más
la
ansiedad
y
el
estrés
en
la
relación.
Al
integrar
EMDR
en
la
terapia
de
pareja,
nuestra
hipótesis
es
que
EMDR
contribuye
tanto
a
aumentar
la
capacidad
de
la
persona
a
tolerar
la
ansiedad,
como
a
disminuir
la
intensidad
de
los
sucesos
traumáticos
pasados
y
los
desencadenantes
actuales
y
así,
reducir
el
nivel
de
estrés
dentro
de
la
relación.
Keywords: Couples
Accuracy Verified: Yes
2. Arnstein, M. (1996, December). Marital therapy, EMDR, Herman's model of recovery from trauma: The journey of one woman and her family. Australian & New Zealand Journal of Family Therapy, 17(4), 212-224.
Language: English
Format: Journal
Abstract:
Judith Herman delineates a 3-stage model of recovery from trauma: (1) Safety; (2) Remembrance and Mourning; (3) Reconnection. She criticises current treatment methods for their failure to make a difference in the "constrictive symptoms of numbing and social withdrawal...and marital, social and work problems do not necessarily improve." Family therapy has been criticised often for insufficient focus on emotion and general sensations. This case analysis will illustrate how these shortcomings can be successfully addressed with the use of marital counseling and EMDR. The use of multiple treatment approaches contributed to one client's resolution of recent trauma due to a car accident, of past crises due to marital infidelity and early childhood abuse, with significant changes for her in her current family as well as in her family of origin. Theoretical implications for "family therapy" are raised. [Author Abstract]
Keywords: Adults Australians Case Report Child Abuse Family Therapy Females Marital Problems Motor Traffic Accidents Posttraumatic Stress Disorder PTSD Survivors Treatment Effectiveness
Accuracy Verified: Yes
3. Kannan, L. (2008, September). Meditation integrated EMDR as an effective technique for post trauma stress: An empirical study. Presentation at the annual meeting of the EMDR International Association, Phoenix, AZ.
Language: English
Format: Conference
Abstract:
It is essential to adapt EMDR to the culture specific complex demands of family trauma among Asian Indians. This presentation highlights empirical data on the effectiveness of an innovative technique i.e. Meditation Integrated EMDR (MIE) (Vipassana Mindfulness meditation + pranayama + EMDR) with those undergoing post trauma disorders after a family trauma. It introduces the participants to the theoretical basis and techniques of both MIE and EMDR, its adaptations and trains participants to apply to clients. The impact of therapy on SE, LOC, coping styles and overall QOL and their role as predictors of recovery is emphasized. Thus, participants gain a powerful strategy for the holistic treatment of familial trauma like divorce, infidelity, grief, domestic violence.
Keywords: Meditation Post Traumatic Stress
Accuracy Verified: Yes
4. Capps, F. (2005, September). Rebuilding trust: Healing for couples using EMDR. Presentation at the annual meeting of the EMDR International Association, Seattle, WA.
Language: English
Format: Conference
Abstract:
Previous couples' therapy using EMDR has focused on attachment injuries. The body of work is discussed, as is the EMDR protocol, for couples proposed by Moses (2003). This workshop focuses on trust wounds within the relationship my describing 3 scenarios: substance abuse, violence abuse, and infidelity. Protocol variants that enhance client safety are illustrated. Results that include trauma resolution, increased empathy, relapse prevention gains, and heightened intimacy are reported. Innovative outcome assessment instrumentation is demonstrated.
Keywords: Couples Therapy
Accuracy Verified: Yes
5. Koedam, W. S. (2007). Sexual tauma in dsfunctional marriages: Integrating structural therapy and EMDR. In F. Shaprio, F. W. Kaslow, & L. Maxfield (Eds.), Handbook of EMDR and family therapy processes (pp.223-242). Hoboken, NJ: John Wiley & Sons Inc.
Language: English
Format: Book Section
Abstract:
Sexual abuse survivor couples who choose to engage in marital therapy often present with problems around attachment, intimacy, infidelity, rage, a sense of entrapment, feelings of betrayal, low self-esteem, powerlessness, codependency, and a need to control or have power. Their individual histories become critical to understanding what type of interventions to implement as these individuals continue to respond to one another in an almost stylized and predictable manner. This chapter describes a treatment approach that combines Structural Family Therapy (SFT) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) in marital therapy when one or both partners have a history of childhood sexual abuse. In this approach, the therapist begins with SFT and then shifts to EMDR treatment of the traumatized partner. This shift is to process the survivor's abuse experience so that he or she can come to an adaptive resolution. This sets the stage for the survivor to respond differently to the possible triggers in his or her life as well as in the relationship. Once the EMDR process is complete and the couple participates in joint debriefing of the EMDR intervention, they reengage in the SFT marital sessions while integrating insights and adaptations the trauma survivor has gained from the EMDR work. This approach involves the applications of the EMDR standard protocol. It also uses the core elements of SFT, such as joining, restructuring diffuse and rigid boundaries, relabeling, and enactments. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2008 APA, all rights reserved)
Keywords: Dysfunctional Marriages Emotional Trauma Integrative Psychotherapy Marriage Counseling. Sexual Abuse Sexual Trauma Structural Family Therapy
Accuracy Verified: Yes
6. Barton, S. (2013, February 8). When talking about how your spouse cheated on you makes you feel worse. The Atlantic. Retrieved from http://www.theatlantic.com/sexes/archive/2013/02/when-talking-about-how-your-spouse-cheated-on-you-makes-you-feel-worse/272892/ on 3/12/2013.
Language: English
Format: Other
Abstract:
I had never heard of it when my therapist first suggested it to me last year as a possibility for moving beyond a past relationship issue that I had failed to resolve with other therapists using various approaches. In many ways, EMDR is drastically different from any other therapy I'd ever tried or learned about, and the novelty of it made me curious and gave me hope. [Excerpt]
Keywords: Cheating Infidelity
Accuracy Verified: Yes


